Stop carrying your heartbreak alone

If you need it, you can talk to me within 24 hours. I guarantee it. With heartbreak, the first days and weeks are often the hardest, and that is not the moment to wait months for someone who will listen. There is always a slot in my calendar within 24 hours.

Yes. You can talk to me in English or in Dutch, whichever feels most comfortable. Just let me know when you book.

It may take a moment to get used to. But most people quickly notice how good it feels to talk from home, in a place where they feel safe. On your own sofa, with a cup of tea and a blanket, just as you are.

No travelling, no waiting room and no driving home with tears in your eyes afterwards. And you schedule a conversation at a time that suits you.

Think of it as a trusted person joining you at home. Prefer to meet in person? That is possible too, in Capelle aan den IJssel.

Friends and family often want to listen, and that is valuable. But sometimes it gets too much for them, they quickly have an opinion about your ex, or you notice you keep bringing up the same thing. Then you soon start to feel like a burden, just when you need support.

With me you don't have to spare anyone. You don't have to carry it alone and you're not a burden. I'm your listening ear, I'm not part of your circle and I don't judge. And I give you the tools you need to truly work through this grief, so you can enjoy time with your friends again.

Yes. Many women quickly feel at ease with me. I'm sensitive, I listen without judgement and I pick up well on what you need, even when you don't quite know how to put it into words yet.

Sometimes it actually helps to talk to someone outside your own circle. Not sure? Book the free fifteen-minute introduction first and feel for yourself whether it clicks. There's no commitment.

Not at all. Heartbreak isn't weakness. Many men carry it alone for a long time, precisely because they think they should sort it out themselves or keep it together for the people around them.

I know from my own experience how heavy that can be. With me you don't have to act tough or explain anything. You can just say how it is, and together we'll look at how you get a grip again.

That's okay. You don't need to prepare anything and there's no right or wrong way to start. We simply begin wherever you are at that moment.

If there are tears, there's room for them. Sometimes the first conversation is mostly about letting it all out, and that is often a big step already.

Of course. Heartbreak doesn't follow a schedule. Sometimes the pain only comes later, when the first rush is over and everyone around you has moved on.

Whether it was a week, a month or a year ago: if it still hurts, it's worth talking about.

Yes. Even if you made the choice, saying goodbye can hurt a lot. You lose someone who was important to you, and often a part of the future you had pictured too.

Guilt, doubt and loneliness often come with it. Those feelings are allowed, and it helps to share them with someone who doesn't judge.

Usually not, because this is not treatment by a registered healthcare professional. On the other hand, you don't need a referral from your GP, there is no waiting list and you decide how many sessions you want.

After booking you'll receive a link by email. At the agreed time you click on it and you'll see me on screen. You don't need to install anything.

All you need is a laptop, tablet or phone and a place where you can talk quietly without being disturbed. Headphones can be nice if you don't want others in the house to overhear.

Yes. What you tell me stays between us. I don't share anything with others and only keep what is needed for the appointment, such as your name and email address.

That differs per person. Some people need just one or two conversations to breathe a little easier again. Others come for a few months, because they want to work step by step on what happened and on how they want to move on.

You set the pace. After each session you decide for yourself if and when you want to book the next one.